12 October 2014

Family Time

 For my birthday this year we were in California. We had spent 6 days at Disneyland and then went to Formula Drift Irwindale to watch my husband, Brandon, race. After all that, we celebrated my birthday by going to Seal Beach. I couldn't have asked better day with my little family.

 Happy 26th to me! Here's to making this the best year yet.

24 September 2014

Quote Doodles

 I was feeling a bit down and when that happens, I need an artistic outlet.
I have a ton of quotes saved on Pinterest that I used for inspiration.
Please feel free to use and share these. I hope you find them uplifting.

I would love to know; what do you do when you feel down?

23 September 2014

Welcome Fall

 Fall is absolutely my favorite time of year. 

Bring on everything pumpkin flavored, cool weather and my birthday!

24 May 2014

Loss and Continuing to Live

This has been heavy on my mind lately, so I felt I must share in hopes that it can help anyone who has had a loss.
In December 2011, my husband and I were expecting our first child. A boy, who we named Aaron. Three weeks before his due date, I had a day where I didn't feel him move. I thought maybe he moved a little... I could wait, I was sure it was nothing. After a very restless night, my husband took me to the hospital the next morning. Sure enough, the nurse couldn't find his heartbeat. She got the doctor to tell us the bad news. There was no obvious sign of what caused Aaron's heart to stop, but we were told we would learn more after he was delivered. 
The thought of delivering a dead baby completely sickened me. I wasn't sure I would even be able to look at him.
We called our family and spent the day praying and comforting one another. 
Shortly after 1 am, Aaron was born. So many tears. Tears of sorrow, tears of wonder, tears of pain, and even tears of joy. I held him on my chest and could not get over how amazing he was. This amazing little body, with tiny fingers and toes. All of those fears from before, washed away. Looking back, I can't imagine not seeing him. The pictures we have of him are one of my most prized possessions. 
The umbilical cord suggested it became kinked somehow and no oxygen was able to get though. His body was perfect. We spent 10 hours with his body and then it was time to let him go. I gave him to the woman from the mortuary and watched them walk out the door. I even went to the window and saw them drive away. 
And then I was empty. 
We went home and as if my body hadn't gone through enough just having a baby, mentally and emotionally I was exhausted. I didn't want to get out of bed. I didn't want to see people. I didn't want to have to explain. 
The day of the funeral, I didn't want to go. The only thing that got me there was knowing I could hold Aaron one last time. Though necessary and worth it, it reopened the not even close to healing wounds. 
I knew I had two options, and they were blame God, or let this bring me closer to Him. I chose the latter. It definitely hasn't been easy. I don't understand why this happened, but I have learned to trust in Heavenly Father. I know if I allow Him, He will take care of me. 
It has been 2 and a half years. Forever and a blink of the eye, all at the same time. Since then, I have had another son. I was terrified of forgetting Aaron after his brother was born, but that's not the case at all. We talk about Aaron and visit his grave. We know he is watching out for us and aren't ashamed to tell anyone who wants to hear. 
I've been asked a lot recently how I got over losing Aaron, and my response has been, I will never get over losing him. As time passes I find joy in life again. I thought my life was over. Now, I've learned that although a piece of my heart will always be missing, it can still be full. Its more like, I've reserved a spot that is very tender, but love can still fill and flourish around it. I won't ever be "back to myself" because I have been completely changed. I cherish the small things and am grateful to get through each day.

10 July 2013

Finished Bedroom!

 The Finished closet. I found this mirrored vanity at Home Goods on clearance for $30! A couple of the mirror pieces are cracked, but honestly it's hardly noticeable.

 Starting on the floor. I used Ikea flooring. I LOVE it! I bought the Slatten laminated flooring and it is only $0.65 / sq foot! Amazing.
 It was a little frustrating at first. A few tips; 1. clean out the grooves with a brush before trying to slide the pieces together. 2. Measuring and leaving only a small gap between the wall and flooring is difficult (at least for me) to judge. Always make it a tiny bit bigger than you think it should be. You can always cut it again if the piece is still too big. 3. Store the boxes of laminate flat on the ground. I didn't realize this and had they standing against the wall and a few pieces got warped.

 There was just one corner that gave me some grief. We had to cut it with a hand saw and as you can see, my monkey toes came in handy.

 All finished! I am thrilled with how it turned out. I can't wait to do the rest of my house.
 I was touching up the paint and my cat decided to sit right in the paint tray! Kids.

 Feeling more like a room! This is the Malm dresser from Ikea.

I thought I would want my vanity in the closet, but closet space for clothes was more important. I love my picture collage with mementos.

Not 100% finished but well on its way!